Editorial Review
The most popular question any pregnant woman is asked — aside from "When are you due?" — has got to be "Are you having a girl or a boy?" When author Andrea Buchanan, already a mom to a little girl, was pregnant with her second child, she marveled at the response of friends and total strangers alike: "Boys are wonderful," "Boys are so much better than girls," "Boys love their mothers differently than girls." This constant refrain led her to explore the issue herself, with help from her fellow writers and moms, many of whom had had the same experience.
The result is It's A Boy, a wide-ranging, often-humorous, and honest collection of essays about the experience of mothering boys. Taking on topics like aggression, parenting a teenage boy, and wishing for a daughter but getting a son, It's A Boy explores what it's like to mother sons and how that experience may be different, but no less satisfying, than mothering girls.
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Customer Reviews
Women are scary 
2007-10-11
Reviewing the reviews-- wow -- as a son-- these comments from women are really scary , as are the bizarre, anti-male topics mentioned in the book-- wanting a girl, but getting a boy; "dealing with " boys "otherness", " prenatal boy apprehension".
Why don't you ladies here-- and apparently the author /editor of this compedium--- abort a boy when you determine his gender and are disappointed.
Apparently, from this sample, there are a lot of you women out there. I find it disgusting.
Women of the last 40 years sure are a misandrist lot--- can you imagine men publishing a book on their disappointmenr at being informed "Its a girl"-- worrying about her "otherness" and having "girl apprehension". They would be accused of sexism and denounced all about.
But here we have women with these strange thoughts about coping with a male child-- we are the same species, you know, remember your father-- he was maleetc.
Maybe you gals can try parthogenesis or asexual cloning, so you can only have girls and eventually the world will look like you want it to-- all female.
This book and these female reviewers--and apparently a lot of women-- make this man wonder why they are so anti-male that they enter a state of depression and obsess about what to do with this strange "other". Yuch
If you have a boy, you have to read this 
2007-08-02
I heard about this book from a book review in the Brain, Child magazine. I checked it out from the library. After reading about 80% of the stories, I knew that I owed the writers and editor something for bringing this collection of well written and honest stories to me. So I bought it. I have a daughter and a son, and this book helped me to make sense of how I was feeling differently about mothering a son vs a daughter. These writers validated those feelings and gave me words to express them. My son was about 10 months old when I bought it, and I am sure I will reread many of the essays again as he gets older and my experience with raising a boy grows. I would loan out this book, but I'm afraid I won't get it back again!
a thoughtful read for mom's expecting a son 2007-06-26
I bought this for my best friend just after she had her son. She read it immediately, loved it and then sent it back to me when I found out I was expecting a boy. It was great. I was so certain I was having a girl that when the ultrasound showed otherwise, it took me a bit of time to reframe. This book really helped with that. Many of the authors write about their fear, surprise or wonder about having a little boy. Others knew a son was just what they wanted or was meant for them. Reading pieces from so many different perspectives was immensely helpful for me in preparing for the birth of my son who is the light of my life. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone!
Loved it. 2007-06-18
As a woman (and as one who grew up among women and very few male influences), a writer, a soon-to-be mother of a son, I found this anthology charming, enlightening, and validating. It not only helped me to not feel so alone in some of the emotions I've been feeling since the big reveal on the ultrasound, but it also gave me much to look forward to in raising my son. A great book for parents everywhere.
Great Perspective 2007-01-09
I've passed this book along to all of my friends who have sons. It is a super quick, light read with lots of humor and new ways of looking at things for those of us raising little men.
An enjoyable collection of essays on raising sons. 
2008-07-09
I really enjoyed this collection of essays on raising sons. I have three of them myself and was very excited to get my hands on this book that tells the tales of mothers and their challenges and joys when raising their sons from conception to the dreaded teenage years. There were obviously some essays that I enjoyed more than others such as Susan Ito's "Samuel" about a woman and the son she never had. "Things You Can't Teach" by Katie Kaput a transgender woman trying to raise a son, "Pretty Baby" by Catherine Newman a hilarious essay about a woman trying to raise a son without the confines of societal norms and Jacquelyn Mitchard's "The Day He Was Taller" a touching essay about the day she realized her son was becoming a man. All of these above mentioned essays made me laugh or cry and I thoroughly enjoyed them all.
So one may wonder if I liked all of these essays so much why am I only giving the book three stars. Well that is because many of the essays despite being fairly entertaining did not touch me...I could not relate. The beginning essays mostly focused on women's disappointment at learning they were having a boy. Now, trust me when I tell you no one has wanted a little girl more than I did and when I found out I was having twin boys after already having a three year old son I was a bit miffed to say the least. However, no matter how much I wanted a girl I never cried over the fact that I was having boys, my disappointment did not run as deep as many of these women's seemed to have at the news of a boy. I was just happy to be having healthy babies. So on this issue while I could totally understand, I couldn't completely relate.
Also, many of these women writers wanted to raise their sons to be free of the confines society forces on boys. Which is all well and good but I cannot, personally, relate to letting my son wear earrings and necklaces to preschool just because he felt like it. I cannot conceive of buying my son pink clothes and shoes from the girls section of the store just be cause he really likes pink and I don't tend to give my sons dolls over trucks because I want them to be more open minded. I am just not one of those mothers so again I couldn't relate.
Overall I think this is a good collection of essays centered around raising boys especially since there are not a lot out there like it. Therefore, I would recommend it to mothers of sons even if you cannot relate to all of the essays some are guaranteed to touch your heart.
I like it! 2008-06-01
The stories are written by mothers of different ethnicities and socio-economic backgrounds. It's strange to realize that mothers all over the country feel the same way about having sons. Makes me LOVE being a mother of a boy!
Overall great essays, but some that are very hard to read 2008-05-14
Overall, the stories are touching and are exactly what I was hoping for when I ordered this book. However, for those of you are sensitive, be careful - there are some hard essays to read in there about loss and danger to the mother - which being pregnant right now, I found difficult.
Sentimental and Real 2007-11-07
Great Book. A must-have. Many of the essays made me cry, which is OK because I had it in my car where I would read it in a parking lot after my son would fall asleep in the car. Just my boy and me, in silence, and I could relate to all the stories.
Another book which is equally good but will have you laughing instead of crying is "The House of Testosterone". That's in my car now. ;-)
Absolutely Wonderful. Insightful 2007-10-22
Interesting the only negative review was from a male. I have a 14 mo. old son and these writers are spot on about so much! I feel like they are my feminist friends. Great tough insights, wonderful laughs too.
Good work.
