Editorial Review
A Different Kind of Perfect is a story about parents choosing a child with Down syndrome and the implications of that choice. It's a story about faith and blessings in an imperfect world that craves and idealizes perfection. It's also a story about finding God's perfection through love. Written with an honest voice, George Michael Lane draws the reader into his family's personal story. The struggle with whether or not to terminate the pregnancy is honest and will hit a nerve with a contemporary audience.
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Customer Reviews
Heartwarming Story 
2008-06-04
George Lane's "A Different Kind of Perfect" is a heartwarming story of a parents very difficult choice to have and raise a child with Down Syndrome. After reading the story, it is very clear that the Lanes made the absolute right decision in having and raising Amy. One can tell by reading the book, that Amy has brought a very special gift to the Lane Family.
The book not only is sensitive but also humorous at times with Mr. Lane's analogies to his beloved Red Sox.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone, especially those that are facing difficult decisions.
A Must Read.... 2008-06-03
A Different Kind of Perfect by George Lane was a very inspiring story that was so well written it made me feel like I was involved in the whole process. It captured me and I could not put it down - I read it in 3 hours because I couldn't wait to see what happened next. How noble of Mr. Lane to share the story of his family's stuggle in all aspects of this situation! It's a must read for anyone facing similar challenges and for anyone who enjoys true life stories.
"Only Love Is Perfect" 2008-06-03
"A Different Kind of Perfect" is a heartfelt story of the uncertainty and struggle faced when making a life decision to give birth to a child with Down Syndrome. George Lane and his wife, through their love and devotion to God and each other, made the conscious decision to have Amy. This book is written with sincerity and simple truth....all the good times and tough times of raising their daughter. I felt very connected to this book in that I have a cousin with Down Syndrome, and he has given my family countless joy with his wit and charm...he also is "A Different Kind of Perfect".
This book is not only for those faced with this decision, but a book to help all better understand individuals with Down Syndrome.
Gifts come in surprising packages 2008-06-03
George Lane's book teaches us about the beauty that God sees in all His creations. One would think that I am speaking only of his daughter Amy, whose birth and life thus far he so beautifully recounts. George Lane also, and maybe as importantly, recounts the beauty of the creation of the partnership and faith found in marriage and family. His is more the story of the richness of life in all its turmoil and joy than the story of one special child. Thank you for this wonderful gift, which I read and re-read!
George Lane's honest soul searching 
2008-06-02
George Lane shows that even someone of strong faith has to come to grips with reconciling their core beliefs with taking the easy way. Rarely does an author give such an honest account of their personal wrestling with one of a parent's most gut wrenching decisions. He and his wife have to decide whether or not to knowingly give birth to a handicapped child.
It is a fascinating walk with someone knowing the right answer while hoping they can find an escape clause. Every parent who has faced or will be faced with this decision will find strength and reasurrance from this book.
A beautiful memoir of love and faith 2008-07-18
This book is a beautiful memoir full of love and faith. George Lane's honesty is heartwarming and inspiring. The struggle that George and Thea endured in their decision making process is humbling to the reader, as are the challenges that their family has endured. But the most powerful thing about this book is that the Lanes don't dwell on the challenges, they embrace their daughter and sister and love her for all that she is.
Compelling story for all levels of society 2008-06-19
A Different Kind of Perfect has validated my recent conversion to accept the Anti-Abortion credo of "Life begins at conception". I am married to an Obstetrician who abstains from performing abortions in her practice, instead counseling patients that placing the baby up for adoption was a more humane option and one God's blessings would adorn. George and Thea (I feel comfortable in calling them by their first names after getting to know them so well through the book) faced a truly difficult decision. Why complicate what appeared to be a normal, active and wholesome life by having a child certain to tax their patience and resources, and ultimately their marital and family harmony.
Early on, the book's agonizing account of the mental and spiritual torment confronting the couple to knowingly have a child with Down Syndrome forced me to better understand the complexity of the choice by partners I sensed were ordinary people. George writes with clarity of purpose in telling the story of Amy, revealing a passion for doing what's best for his special child and family, and displaying an unabashed fervor for his beloved Red Sox. The juxtaposition of following a Baseball World Series with the thinking behind one of life's most difficult decisions was an artful touch.
I literally could not put the book down as it was important for me to know that the special blessings involved in facing a travail many couples would eschew brought such great rewards to the entire Lane clan. What a delight it would be to happen upon George, Thea and Amy one day, perhaps at a Peter, Paul & Mary concert!
Of course, I'm sure Amy would be smiling and George and Thea enthralled by their little "sweetie".
Inspiration 2008-06-10
George Lane is an inspirational writer and "A Different Kind of Perfect" is a true love story. George "connects the dots" of life. He obviously has successfully dealt with life issues with an honest and sincere effort in doing the right thing. George and his family are to be admired and in addition, George is a credit to Red Sox Nation!
Stanley Straube
President
Straube Associates
Executive Search
North Andover, MA
Culture of Life 2008-06-05
"A Different Kind of Perfect is composed in the style of
a memoir, and as such should be very compelling to the reader. It is
written in a heartfelt manner. Mr. Lane presents a rare and sobering
picture of the intense struggle and pain some spouses and families
encounter as they seek to make choices in accord with the Culture of
Life. Additionally, the text conveys the power of conversion and
transformation wrought through prayerful determination in union with
the grace offered in and through the Church. It is my opinion that the
author's overall message can make a significant contribution to the
Pro-Life witness of the Church."
"A Different Kind of Perfect" 2008-06-05
This book truly inspired me to think about the more important aspects of our lives and how we make choices. The story is compelling, the writing is engaging, and the messages are relevant for all. A fast read that left and indelible impression.
